HOW WE FIRST MET: We met when we were both working as extras in a short lived TV show "Trauma" that was filming in SF. We were both in drag, the episode was the Halloween episode about a fire at a Drag event in the Castro. Sandra tried several times to start up a conversation with me, but I'm very shy and I kept getting distracted, plus I have absolutely no "Flirt Radar." She figured I was not interested and was another stuck up "Bear" that wanted nothing to do with a Korean Drag Queen.
She asked her friend Cookie Dough about me. Cookie and I both had worked at Josie's Cabaret together. Cookie called me over and introduced me to the other Drag Queens and said "And this is Sandra O. Noshi-Di'n't and she wants to see you naked." Even I got that message. I later worked up the nerve to talk to her, and we hung around together for the rest of the shoot. In the green room, she sat with me, then sat on my lap. As we were saying goodbye, she going with her friends and me going to get my Vespa from the parking garage, as the elevator doors were closing she leaned in and kissed me. She says I had a totally shocked look on my face as the doors closed.